[Mike Pearson]

Terry,

Just keep working toward that goal. Both of my X's had that same attitude in the beginning but as time passed and we both got on with our lives things changed and thats when we were able to make our deals. Like the other guys said you should consult an attorney to find out what your rights are. Just remember you dont have to sign anything until you are ready too. In my first divorce I had to give up what I had in my retirement acct to keep my home. I was young at the time so that was not such a big deal. That was still a good deal for me. Keep an open mind and remember you will have to give on some things to get what you want.