Re: Really frustating
If there will be a fight, do what Jim said and go for the throat. My wife went to a shrink years ago who convinced her she had an alcoholic upbringing and I was an abusive husband. When it started to go sour I cancelled her cards, removed her name from everything and had a lawyer who had a lot of "dirty" tricks. When faced with this she backed down and we went through councelling. Come to find out (since I've never hit her ect) I'm NOT an abusing husband and while her mother is a wingnut, she can't use that as an excuse 30years later for some of the crap she was doing. we're still married and while she has flare ups of stupidity, generally speaking it's been good.
If it IS over though.....it really is you or her. This is not something you want to lose. Protect the sweat equity you've built in the last XX years. Find a friend who will "buy" everything you cherish for pennies on the dollar with the expectation of selling it back to you for the same price when the smoke clears.
Good luck.
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