RIP BJ Graham - Page 2

Gary Smith · 11-20-2020, 06:47 PM

This one's a hard one to swallow. Our family has known Mike & BJ for decades, spending a lot of time together in the early years both at their house and ours. One thing rarely discussed was BJ's love of art, will never forget the paintings she used to do. And how she could lighten the mood under the most difficult circumstances. I have too many memories of her to share here. Mike my sincere sympathy and prayers to you, I know probably more than anyone how much of an anchor and literally your right arm she truly was in everything you two ever did, and for many years. She will be greatly missed. Rest In Peace Barbara Jean.

Shadylane · 11-20-2020, 08:14 PM

So sad to hear this! RIP BJ. Our most sincere condolences to Mike and family.

Kelly & Melissa Lane

Joe Marcinowski · 11-20-2020, 08:16 PM

So sorry to hear this.

vic guilmino · 11-20-2020, 08:23 PM

Our thoughts and prayers to Mike.
BJ was one of a kind. The sweetest, strongest lady we have ever met and loved. There are no words. She fought a hard fight and is now racing in heaven.

SStockDart · 11-20-2020, 08:35 PM

Our prayers are with you.

Donna and Gary

The Hawk · 11-20-2020, 08:55 PM

Sorry to hear, my condolences.

Carguy49 · 11-20-2020, 08:58 PM

This one hurts. Even though I didn't know Mike and B.J. personally, I considered them friends. I knew what B.J. was going through and we had talked a few times. When my wife passed in 2018 Mike sent the best private message I could ever get. They have been in my prayers for a long time. I guess she is no longer suffering, but that doesn't make it any easier.

Godspeed B.J. and may God comfort Mike and their many friends at this time.

racr1320 · 11-20-2020, 09:04 PM

Rest In Peace BJ. Our deepest sympathies to Mike and family. Tim and Terry Hall

Frank Castros · 11-20-2020, 09:05 PM

Rest In Peace BJ.

Pete Lanciers · 11-20-2020, 10:07 PM

Deeply saddened to hear of BJ’s passing, Mike... Very grateful to have had an opportunity to chat in Phoenix. GODSPEED BJ! God’s grace descend upon you Mike...

11-20-2020, 06:47 PM	#11
Gary Smith Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Greensboro, NC Posts: 807 Likes: 7 Liked 75 Times in 24 Posts	Re: RIP BJ Graham This one's a hard one to swallow. Our family has known Mike & BJ for decades, spending a lot of time together in the early years both at their house and ours. One thing rarely discussed was BJ's love of art, will never forget the paintings she used to do. And how she could lighten the mood under the most difficult circumstances. I have too many memories of her to share here. Mike my sincere sympathy and prayers to you, I know probably more than anyone how much of an anchor and literally your right arm she truly was in everything you two ever did, and for many years. She will be greatly missed. Rest In Peace Barbara Jean. __________________ Gary Smith "another broke racer spectating"

11-20-2020, 08:14 PM	#12
Shadylane Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Farmington, New Mexico Posts: 189 Likes: 169 Liked 119 Times in 39 Posts	Re: RIP BJ Graham So sad to hear this! RIP BJ. Our most sincere condolences to Mike and family. Kelly & Melissa Lane __________________ Kelly Lane Stk4991

11-20-2020, 08:16 PM	#13
Joe Marcinowski Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Northern Ohio Posts: 201 Likes: 688 Liked 33 Times in 15 Posts	Re: RIP BJ Graham So sorry to hear this. __________________ Joe Marcinowski 3377 STK

11-20-2020, 08:23 PM	#14
vic guilmino Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: wv Posts: 881 Likes: 42 Liked 56 Times in 21 Posts	Re: RIP BJ Graham Our thoughts and prayers to Mike. BJ was one of a kind. The sweetest, strongest lady we have ever met and loved. There are no words. She fought a hard fight and is now racing in heaven. __________________ Vic Guilmino 1129 STK

11-20-2020, 08:35 PM	#15
SStockDart VIP Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Arizona, Texan forever Posts: 1,115 Likes: 719 Liked 458 Times in 173 Posts	Re: RIP BJ Graham Our prayers are with you. Donna and Gary __________________ Gary Hansen - SS/FA 4911, B/SA 4911

11-20-2020, 08:55 PM	#16
The Hawk VIP Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Littleton,Colorado Posts: 1,184 Likes: 0 Liked 235 Times in 102 Posts	Re: RIP BJ Graham Sorry to hear, my condolences. __________________ Lane Weber It`s Not What You Drive That Wins....It`s How You Drive It

11-20-2020, 08:58 PM	#17
Carguy49 VIP Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Fife, Washington Posts: 1,841 Likes: 1,759 Liked 2,228 Times in 595 Posts	Re: RIP BJ Graham This one hurts. Even though I didn't know Mike and B.J. personally, I considered them friends. I knew what B.J. was going through and we had talked a few times. When my wife passed in 2018 Mike sent the best private message I could ever get. They have been in my prayers for a long time. I guess she is no longer suffering, but that doesn't make it any easier. Godspeed B.J. and may God comfort Mike and their many friends at this time. __________________ Ron McDowell - Did Race Every day is a Gift - Enjoy with family and friends. Last edited by Carguy49; 11-21-2020 at 03:15 PM.

11-20-2020, 09:04 PM	#18
racr1320 Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 39 Likes: 1 Liked 4 Times in 2 Posts	Re: RIP BJ Graham Rest In Peace BJ. Our deepest sympathies to Mike and family. Tim and Terry Hall

11-20-2020, 09:05 PM	#19
Frank Castros VIP Member Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: The Lowcountry. Posts: 2,641 Likes: 2,154 Liked 2,080 Times in 769 Posts	Re: RIP BJ Graham Rest In Peace BJ.

11-20-2020, 10:07 PM	#20
Pete Lanciers Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 368 Likes: 807 Liked 562 Times in 145 Posts	Re: RIP BJ Graham Deeply saddened to hear of BJ’s passing, Mike... Very grateful to have had an opportunity to chat in Phoenix. GODSPEED BJ! God’s grace descend upon you Mike... __________________ Pete Lanciers PAL Automotive Racing Stock 7801